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I’ve been wanting to have a conversation about sex and sexuality on the podcast for some time now. Sex, desire, sexuality, and sexual pleasure are such taboos and often get left to the wayside and yet its such an intrinsic part of the menstrual cycle, and of our humanity.
Who better to speak to on these intersecting aspects of ourselves than my beautiful guest on Wild Flow Podcast, Ruby May.
With a background in working professionally with intimacy and sexuality and a stint working as a dominatrix, Ruby became fascinated in the phenomena of Feminine leadership and how the womb could become a gateway into embodying this.
tune in to hear:
In this episode we bring to you a beautiful conversation illuminating topics including:
How sexuality can change across the menstrual cycle, both according to hormonal changes and the inner stuff that comes up for Ruby and I in different seasons of our cycles on deeper levels, including wounding, shadows, needs, desires, and ways of expressing and relating to partners.
How sexuality can change over time and phase of life,
How we can work with our inner archetypes to explore our sexuality,
How feminine leadership can be rooted in our capacity to embody our sexuality
Why being live on an LA Porn set, and working as a Dominatrix deeply changed the way Ruby feels about, relates to and experiences sex in her personal intimate relationships.
We also talked about why sexuality is such a taboo, just like menstruation, and how healing it can be to bring it back from the shadows to be loved, understood, healed and expressed.
And so much more…
This conversation has left me feeling nourished, connected, soft, curious and whole. I hope that in listening you feel that way too.
meet ruby may:
Ruby May is a devotee of the Yin, facilitator, community & connection catalyst, midwifing a world in which cyclical awareness is integrated into the way we relate and shape the world.
With a background in working professionally with intimacy and sexuality and a stint working as a dominatrix, Ruby became fascinated in the phenomena of Feminine leadership and how the womb could become a gateway into embodying this.
Ruby is the community leader for the graduates of the Menstruality Leadership programme for the Red School, the biggest education centre globally for Menstrual Cycle Awareness and her own initiative, Know Your Flow. Both support the cultivation of community for developing body literacy, inspired leadership and social change, with over 200 members from over 20 countries.
The author of “Know Your Flow: A cycle Tracking Journal for Personal and Planetary Revolution” and creatrix behind”The Game”, Ruby currently lives in the creative cauldron of Berlin.
connect with ruby:
Instagram https://www.instagram.com/know.your.flow/
Her courses and cycle work https://know-your-flow.com
Ruby’s Connection Game https://www.the-connection-game.com
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meet your host
Charlotte Pointeaux
Charlotte Pointeaux is an Internationally Award-Winning triple-Certified Coach, Youth Mentor, Host of Wild Flow Podcast, a sought-after guest menstrual educator and speaker. She is a Shamanic Womancrafter, a Priestess of the Cycle Mysteries.
Charlotte’s work as a Wild Feminine Cycle Coach weaves together shamanic womb healing and rite of passage work with menstrual cycle awareness and feminine embodiment tools, to guide women through their transformational journey of reclaiming their wild feminine cyclic powers to expressing their big magick as a sacred leader.
Charlotte founded First Moon Circles®, a renowned facilitator training program, to train new menstrual educators to prepare, honour and celebrate children and their care-givers at menarche (their first period). To date, she has trained almost 100 facilitators across 5 continents and is on a mission to infuse families, friendships, classrooms and communities with period positivity and menstrually inclusive practices.
Download your free menstrual magick guide by subscribing to my newsletter, and discover my coaching, courses and short classes at www.charlottepointeaux.com/coaching.
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